Ballo 城的夏天很舒服,加上離風景名勝地不遠,每次過過夏天之後,就會忘了冬天的難過。Niagara on the Lake 是一個離這邊約 40 分鐘車程,在剛剛過美國邊境,在加拿大這一邊的大湖邊的一個小鎮。一路沿著這 Niagara River Blvd 開,有許多品酒的村莊,或是果園。接著走一陣子,不但風景宜人,你會看到許多許多令人欣羨的美麗住家,會感覺你在天堂的世界一樣,當然這些房子,動則百萬-數百萬以上。
早耳聞這兒的水蜜桃很有名,但是我都沒嚐過。兩個星期前週末這兒有一年一度的水蜜桃節 (peach festival)。可惜我錯過了!就晚了那麼一天!:( 不過桃子還是都買得到啦!上個星期朋友來訪,我們建議他們去幾個地方玩,當然也特別跟他們提到別忘了嚐嚐 Niagara on the Lake 的水蜜桃。貼心的朋友在結束加拿大行程回到我們家時,特地帶了幾棵水蜜桃回來。好感動呀!一般,水果是不能帶回美國的,但是只有 Niagara on the Lake 的水果准你帶。 所以就在我生日那天晚上,終於一嚐訴願,吃到 Niagara on the Lake 的水蜜桃。那兒的水蜜桃真大顆,本以為我自己一個人是吃不完的。加上那天晚餐教會的朋友請吃大餐,吃得好飽,所以要不要吃其實有一點掙扎。。。。但是看著那美麗的水蜜桃,看著看著好像看到上面寫著四個字『吃我吃我』,。。。。還是吃了它吧!當我準備開動之前,跟皮皮說,要幫我吃。接著,我終於處女初體驗,咬下我人生的第一口。。。。。哇!滿足的眼淚竟從我的眼角流下來,實在太好吃了呀!這大概是我近10年來吃過最好吃的桃子呀!這時我早已經忘記我肥腸滿肚,只像飢餓的狼一樣,大口大口的狼吞虎嚥,連溢下來的水蜜桃汁都不錯過,邊舔邊吸的滿足的享受著。正在陶醉之間,皮皮突然問我,『好吃嗎?』喔,我忘了他的存在了,『好好吃,我決定不跟你分了!』。。。。皮皮馬上衝過來,在我掙扎之下,也狠狠的咬它一『大』口。『嗯,很好吃!』皮皮舔著嘴角的水蜜桃汁說。還好,今天我生日唄,皮皮成全我,讓我獨自享用完這棵比我拳頭還大的桃子。
關於食物,我是很少這麼貪吃的,會這樣讓我不顧淑女形象,不管已經吃得再飽,不顧身材會走樣,不管三七二十一的,大吃它一通的,Niagara on the Lake 的水蜜桃大概是唯一的幾個。
多倫多夏天有很多活動,每個星期都有不同的音樂、戲劇、電影、小吃、文化節,像上週末是南亞節,非洲文化節,還有更精采的:這一兩個星期是他們全國一年一度的博覽會(Canadian National Exhibition),是要入門票的,裡頭有很多各種展覽,有加拿大軍事的武器展,有表演(像花式溜冰,舞蹈),有花車遊行,有花展,沙雕展,有牲畜展(牛,羊,豬,馬,雞,。。。。。,現場表演如何幫羊剃毛,或是擠牛奶),有來自世界各國的小玩意兒的店,Casino, 也有很多很像台灣的夜市的遊戲,也有雲霄飛車,摩天輪一類的樂園。這個星期六 Bill Clinton 還會去給演講呢。這兒真是小孩子的天堂,當然也很適合像我和皮皮這種年輕人啦!放幾張照片給大家看看。
『柔和謙卑』是『愛』的一種表徵,是一種表達事情的中心原則,是『不堅持自己起初的想法』,會為別人的批評與自己的問題而反覆思考,是關懷他人生命。有時我們很『愛』人,但是我們卻不懂得怎麼愛。每個父母都很愛孩子呀,夫妻也是相愛才會結婚呀,兄弟姊妹之間也很關愛呀,但是,問題還是很多。不是不愛,是愛錯方法,帶給對方的是痛苦,有時對對方並沒有益處。『柔和謙卑』的『愛』才是有益處的完全的愛。所以心中有『愛』很重要,但是心裡柔和謙卑更重要。Being gentle and humble in heart is the key.
以前我很少很少喝咖啡,不敢喝咖啡一方面因為一點點咖啡因就會讓我睡不著覺,一方面好像對咖啡有某種過敏性反應。以前剛到 Boston 做博後時,因為要多認識認識同事,所以每天都跟著同事喝下午咖啡。不久之後,我的嘴唇開始紅腫,有時我都笑說我是 Angelina Jolie, 看醫生也一直治不好,當時真搞不清楚是什麼原因。是因為面霜?No. 是因為牙膏?Yes and No. 因為換了牙膏,好一小陣子之後,又復發。最後發現跟喝咖啡有關,停喝之後,嘴唇就(馬上)好了。自此之後,就在也不敢碰咖啡。
前一陣子常常頭痛,打電話跟老媽訴苦,媽咪說有一姊妹前一陣子也常頭痛,常來跟我們拿止痛藥,但是後來他開始喝咖啡,頭痛就好了。也許我可以試試。因害怕嘴唇過敏,所以我從少量咖啡開始試起,每天早上一小小小湯匙即溶咖啡加入三合一之類的粉一起泡。果然頭痛症狀減輕很多。而且如果一天早上沒喝,那天就容易覺得頭痛。慢慢的,我開始增加我喝的量。現在,我則是跟著皮皮喝他在實驗室親自 brew 的咖啡。只要控制不要喝太多,免得這嘴唇過敏問題又復發,會很麻煩,感覺喝咖啡很好。但是有發現我漸漸變成 late night owl, 晚上愈來愈晚睡,早睡還會有點睡不著。似乎有一點惡性循環。
上回一個我和皮皮爭論的問題,青江菜什麼時候該收成?我打電話回家問老媽,老媽說,早該收成了,等到看到開花就已經太遲了,菜都太老了。前天和昨天我們終於把菜割來煮,雖然好多菜葉都被蟲吃得坑坑洞洞,看是仍不掩我們的興奮,畢竟這是我們第一個收成的菜(除了青蔥之外)。很努力的洗了好幾遍,去掉黃掉的葉子,把沙子洗乾淨之後,就下鍋用蒜蓉青炒。看起來,還不錯喔!結果我和皮皮好奇的嚐了第一口,兩個人的臉馬上都皺成一團,『好苦喔!』我隨即將菜回鍋加糖再炒一遍,。。。。『沒救了!』皮皮放棄了,沒再嚐第二口,我則是繼續試著吃,當成在吃年菜,大部分的菜老得我都咬不下去,嫩一點的則太苦。唉! 結論: 1. 青江菜在開花前就應收成。 2. 種菜,應當相信經驗(和我的直覺),像皮皮這種 does everything by the book 的書獃子,在種菜來說,他的話是不能聽的(皮皮 cook by the book 則還可以),連我得直覺都比他的 by the book 強。 3. 我們家的土質大概不太好,雖然菜長大了,但是似乎 growing veggies is more than that. 還有很多其他的菜在看看結果會如何囉。不然,我們是否得開始收集尿液勒?
最近職籃打的正火熱,東西區冠軍賽實在精采。轉播過程中的廣告是廠商必爭之地,在這種時間有時會看到一些還不錯的廣告。其中有一首有趣的廣告歌,節奏輕快,歌詞也很有趣,反覆聽著聽著,我和皮皮便也開始哼哼唱唱。 這是一個啤酒的廣告,主題是喝了酒後不要開車回家,而是找個計程車載你回家。而廣告中的這首歌是來自 Biz Markie 的歌 "Just a Friend".
Let A Stranger Drive You Home | Heineken Commercial
原唱歌 "Just a Friend" by Biz Markie
原唱歌詞是 Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date But a year to make love she wanted you to wait Let me tell ya a story of my situation I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation The way that I met her was on tour at a concert She had long hair and a short miniskirt I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat I was walkin' through the crowd and guess who I met I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth So I can ask you some questions to see if your hundred proof" I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused I said, "How do you like the show?" she said, "I was very amused" I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man?" she tried to pretend She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend" Come on, I'm not even goin' for it This is what I'm goin' sing
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend And you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend
So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time I thought just havin' a friend couldn't be no crime 'Cause I have friends and that's a fact Like Agnes, Agatha, Germaine, and Jacq Forget about that, let's go into the story About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me So we started talkin', getttin' familiar Spendin' a lot of time so we can build a A relationship or some understanding How it's gonna be in the future we was plannin' Everything sounded so dandy and sweet I had no idea I was in for a treat After this was established, everything was cool The tour was over and she went back to school I called every day to see how she was doin' Everytime that I called her it seemed somethin' was brewin' I called her room, a guy picked up, and then I called again I said, "Yo, who was that?" "Oh, he's just a friend" Don't gimme that, don't even gimme that Jus' bust this
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend And you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend
So I came to her college on a surprise visit To see my girl that was so exquisite It was a school day, I knew she was there The first semester of the school year I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm This guy made me fill out a visitor's form He told me where it was and I as on my way To see my baby doll, I was happy to say I arrived in front of the dormitory Yo, could you tell me where is door three? They showed me where it was for the moment I didn't know I was in for such an event So I came to her room and opened the door Oh, snap! Guess what I saw? A fella tongue-kissin' my girl in the mouth, I was so in shock my heart went down south So please listen to the message that I send Don't ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend has a friend has a friend......